Saturday, July 30, 2011

wth...don't you talk??

Is it so difficult to just take away the egos....n just say what ever you feel like?
Is it so difficult to compliment/ shout at someone?
Is it so difficult to even say what you feel like?

Are we all born with the talent of having the view and understanding what the other person thinks, wants, feels??

I have always felt that any issue can be solved by talking. If someone is angry, just shout, show your anger......once that's done, when you cool off......its feels good. Then thoughts flow freely, feels revitalizing.....gives an opportunity to think better.....is it so difficult!!

I wish, always wished, that I can talk to people without manipulating my thoughts.....i have tried, am trying....with the hope to succeed one day....have u even given it a thought?

Saturday, May 28, 2011

Differences....

Was reading abt relationships......somehow looking back, makes me say that similarity has no shit to do in a relationship.....its all the "differences" that matter.....isn't it??

Both liking the same thing is nothing great and so is the hating part, but when it comes to one liking something and the other hating it, the game.......then starts the play.....

Inspite of the differences, how can 2 people live together? How can they give up their likings/hatred for the sake of the other and still be content.......Loving parents/ siblings, and living for them, nothing great abt it as you are bloodily related ;)

But to love, live, adjust, sacrifice, fight, hate,shout, etc.....at a person, you are not related to, but bonded to.....isn't it kind of questions that relativity?? How can you do this to that one person?? Why is that person so important? If that person is so important to you, does he/she reciprocate?? Does the presence of that person, change ur life? Why does the denial/ hatred of that person towards you, kill you??

At times, I just think......is it all?? And I have always ended up thinking without even getting close to the answer.....

Should we give importance to the differences to make a relationship work?? Or would you still say, that similarities does all the work??

Monday, March 7, 2011

Thinking OUT of the box

Have you heard this -"you need to think out of the box"....wat does it mean??

Every time I hear this, I tend to think, what is this box, which is this box, why "the box" and why not the cone, cylinder, sphere??

The thinking out of the box is expected in such a way as if you are trained for it from your mother's womb and now you are ready to deliver the outcome of it......kind of crazy.....isn't it??

Everything has boundaries (now do not tell me no....there are things like sky, sea, etc...so this statement is excluding those...ok!! ). So why the hell people say, hey we wanted something out of the box...u know.......this idea is so common, we were expecting different, you know, something out of the box.......errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....come on stop it people...will you...

I really feel like getting in a rule like.....hmmmm.......every person who asks the other to think out of the box, will be asked to...?? to do wat....gimme ideas.....lemme create a rule :)